What kind of person attracts you?
Attraction is a complex thing, because it includes many different emotions. Obviously society seems hung up on sexual attraction and how people respond to the opposite or same-sex, and my answer to what kind of person attracts me in that sense is probably many-fold.
In hindsight, I’d have to say from face value someone who isn’t Asian (for anyone who doesn’t know, I’m Chinese born Australian), someone who is taller than me, someone who has a personality that matches mine somewhat. Someone who is willing to allow me to be myself and not want to change me. And someone who loves God.
And I’m blessed to have that one person in my life that fits all that.
Moving onto general attraction though. Because we can describe the way we make friends and acquaintances in similar ways. We are attracted to people platonically as well and that’s a more difficult thing to explain.
But then again, perhaps not.
I’m attracted to people who share common morals, values and beliefs; people who have a sense of humour; people who love God and are passionate about serving Him. People who can sing are a bonus 😉
All my friends and acquaintances these days fit the bill. So, I’m blessed in that way. 🙂
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