Posted in Blogging, blogging the important stuff, childcare, Christmas, December thoughts, early learning thoughts, home is where the heart is, work

It’s December|First Year Done|Home is Where the Heart Is

Some could say that the first year at a new job is always going to be stressful.  Now add on the fact that my centre was brand new at the beginning of this year.  It officially opened in January and had a dedication service in February.

And, now, we’re at the end of the first year, tracking on well to reaching capacity and running smoothly with all the staff that we need.

I don’t see my colleagues as just ‘other staff’ though.  They’re like family.  Distant family, yes…but family nonetheless.  It’s like what Tim Healy said at our Christmas service on the weekend: We can have more than one home, because home is where the heart is.  And my heart and soul and mind are set firmly at my centre.

Do you feel that way at your centre?

The families that call our centre theirs, the team, the support from the Church team…it’s been an amazing year.  Yes, I’ve been sick countless times and had to have time off…but that’s the hazard of working in my profession.  Children are germ magnets…and maybe I am too.

There have been some amazing moments too.  The little things.  Children learning my name, or reaching for me, or just wanting me to join in their play.  Children learning, developing, growing.  The first steps…the first words… the smiles, the tears, the giggling.  The spilled milk…the crying over spilled milk…all of it.

But I think for me, the defining moment was when my Director said to me, after I’d gone away for a holiday and come back, “You’re not going anywhere, we’re keeping you.”

To feel like a valued member of the team, of the family? That means more than anything.  Especially after the way I felt at my previous centre.

Home.  Home is definitely where the heart is.

So, this Christmas season, I can only give thanks to God.  Thanks that 2015 turned out the way it did.

And here’s to a just as amazing 2016.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all.

Posted in my thoughts, personal, sex

On Sex and waiting after marriage

Sexual compatibility isn’t about the act of having sex

It’s so much more than that. It’s a heart connection. That’s why having sex outside of marriage (or committed long term relationship) can be so damaging. 


Asking how can one know if they’re compatible if they don’t try before marriage is a pointless question.

Because you can know before you ever engage in sexual intercourse.

I waited. But we both knew we were compatible because we didn’t abstain from touching each other and talking about what we liked.

You see the way I see it is this: if you know your own body you can actually make yourself compatible with your partner. You just need to communicate your needs, and they theirs. You have to be on the same page, emotionally and mentally. The physical side of things will follow.

I don’t pretend to be an expert about these things, but I think I’ve managed to prove a couple of people wrong on that front.

Waiting until after marriage has actually made it all the better.

One more thing. In the end, it comes down to the act of love.

God, who is Love incarnate, created the act of sex to be enjoyed between a married couple. It is the ultimate show of love and trust in a relationship.

For me, waiting until after marriage was the best decision I ever made.

No regrets.

Posted in Best of 2015, December thoughts, my thoughts, reflection

Best of… 2015

2015 has been an amazing year, so in light of that have the run down of my best thoughts of the year.
I may elaborate on some of these in subsequent posts 🙂

Book of the year:  Mrs Queen Takes the TrainWilliam Kuhn/The Hypnotist’s Love Story – Liane Moriarty
Album of the year (Band):  Diamonds – Hawk Nelson
Album of the Year (Singer/Songwriter): Crazy Days – Paul Morrison
Song of the year:  Boom – Simple Plan/ Will You Be Mine – Paul Morrison/Sold Out – Hawk Nelson
Worship Album of the year: Wildest Dreams – Riverview Worship
Worship song of the year: Wildest Dreams – Riverview Worship/ Great Are You, Lord – All Sons & Daughters/ Ever Be – Bethel Music/ Good Good Father – Housefires
Christmas Album of the Year: Adore – Chris Tomlin 
Concert of the year: Third Day/Paul Simon and Sting
Gig of the year: Crazy Days Album Launch
Movie of the year: The Martian/Mockingjay Part 2
Movie Character of the year:  Katniss Everdeen/Mark Watney
TV Show of the year:  Heroes [Yes, I know it’s not actually new this year; it’s an old old show…but, I’m watching it on Netflix]
TV Character of the year: Hiro Nakamura/Peter Petrelli [see above comment]
Sporting Moment: NRL – North Queensland Cowboys winning their first Grand Final/ AFL – Carlton v Collingwood game at the G/ NBL Wildcats v Crocs game at the Arena
Personal moments: Going to Melbourne with Mark, started new job, getting married
Milestones: Turned 30
Memorable hashtags: #mwsquared #spbed #spalbum5 #worldadoptionday #crazydays #teamsp #takingonefortheteam #lovemakesaway 
Best announcement: Simple Plan’s fifth album – Taking One For The Team, release date 19th February 2016.