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30 day blog challenge – Day 2

Day 2 – Where would you like to be in ten years?

This is a challenging question for me as I am not the type to plan in the long term.  Especially not over decades.  I would be hard pressed to say where I would like to be in a years time.  At least not specific details.  But, I guess that’s a fair point.  So, I could probably outline a general idea of where I would want to be.
I want to be content and filled with joy.  I want a healthy husband (hopefully with a new kidney and pancreas). I want to have children; however many God wishes to bless us with, biological or adopted.  Wherever His plan leads us in that regard. I want to be secure in my profession wherever and however God leads me through that.  
Scary to think that I’ll be 40 at that point and my husband almost 50… But at the same time, I’m praying that the journey will be just as exciting in ten years as it is now.  I want my marriage to be as much a joy as it is now.  And I will endeavour to ensure that I never take it for granted.  Never take Mark for granted.  
God alone knows what the future holds for us.  
Posted in 2016, album review, my thoughts, new music, Simple Plan, Taking One For the Team, Team SP

Taking One For the Team – Simple Plan Album Thoughts




So, I’m finally ready to share my thoughts about an album that I’ve been waiting for since 2013.  Simple Plan just released their fifth album, Taking One For the Team and I can tell you that my initial thoughts were that overall it’s a great album.  Some of the tracks (read Everything Sucks) are a little weaker than I expected.  The ballads are really strong and I love the collabs.  (I Dream About You is so so so different but beautiful and Problem Child made me cry.)
Pierre’s vocals are showcased so well on this album, though.  
And that was after the first listen through.  Now that I’ve listened subsequent times I think I’m now ready to do a track by track review of the album.  (More an opinion piece than a proper review…but hey, that’s how I roll.) 

The opening track Opinion Overload is a great way to begin an album that has been so long in coming.  It is classic SP, pop punk, catchy with lyrics that call out those who are opinionated and like to bring us down.  It also has, I feel, a personal message pertaining to the band and their critics (including the fans who get upset about the different things that the band try; read: Saturday.). I love this track, it reminds me of Still Not Getting Any.
Boom!  What to say about this track? It’s been a while since the very first time I heard this song, but I can honestly say that I have a soft spot for this one.  The band first revealed this track live at a Simple Plan Foundation event, an acoustic version in 2014, and I loved it from the get go.  
The third track on the album Kiss Me Like Nobody’s Watching is a punchy, pop song that professes love and PDAs.  There isn’t much else to say about it, though, except I love the call and answer in the bridge of Jeff’s guitars and Pierre’s vocals.  
Farewell is a track that I had to listen to a couple of times (including when they released it during the release week before the album was released) before getting into.  This is the first track on the album that features a vocal collaboration.  Jordan Pundik of New Found Glory lends his voice to the track and it works really well.  I don’t really know NFG that well, but the bands’ genres are very similar so the collab works.  The song itself sounds lyrically like it could be about a bad romantic relationship but the band hinted that it could have a deeper meaning pertaining to the band itself.  I personally think it reminds me of Friend by Reset (which was referencing Pierre and Chuck’s falling out in their earlier band).  
Singin’ in the Rain didn’t sit right with me the very first time I played it.  It’s so different to anything the guys have done before and R City’s parts jarred as well.  But something clicked the subsequent plays.  It’s got a groove to it that I just want to bob my head along to.  And the lyrics are relatable, talking of life and how even if things aren’t going the way we want we can choose to just sing.  
I love these lyrics: I’ve got a song in my heart and I’m bulletproof/There’s nothing in the world that’s gonna kill this mood/No matter what life wants to throw my way/I’ll be singing, I’ll be singing in the rain!
Apparently the band will be filming a music video for this song this weekend, can’t wait to see what that will look like.

The band teased the next track early on in the studio process.  Everything Sucks is a track that is slowly beginning to grow on me.  It’s the weakest track on the album, but I still really like it.  I think it’s just a very safe song with rhyming lines and a formulaic lay out (you could say the same of plenty of other songs on the album, though).  It does showcase Pierre’s vocals well and the gang vocals at the end are catchy.  To be honest, knowing me, I’ll probably absolutely love this song after even more listens, but I think after hearing the tease of the chorus I was expecting a stronger song.  But, there it is. 

WOAH-OH I Refuse to accept criticism of this band by haters… This whole song is a big fuck you to the detractors in life who want to tear us down with their words.  It’s a choice that we can make to not allow them to make a difference in our lives.  This should be everyone’s anthem. I Refuse, the anthem of every bullied person in the world.  Boom! (This is a hard hitting pop punk track that I definitely want to hear live.)

Simple Plan’s collaborations with hip-hop artists have become a staple now, and so I have high expectations when it comes to these tracks.  I Don’t Wanna Go to Bed feat Nelly didn’t disappoint.  This track was released last year as the official lead single for the album.  The band filmed a Baywatch themed video for the track, which even has the Hoff himself cameoing in it.  If any song on the album is going to be labelled pop, it would have to be this one.  Pop and RnB to be honest.  Nelly’s contribution fits perfectly with the track, though on the single release he has a line right at the beginning that is cut from the album version.  Probably as it didn’t flow from the end of I Refuse. All in all a track that I actually really love.

If you haven’t been living under a rock you’d know that Simple Plan is pop punk at their roots and this track, Nostalgic, reminds me of all the pop punk bands that were around when I first became a fan of the band.  It sounds like a mix of Blink 182, Good Charlotte, Lee Harding (Wasabi era) and even Bowling For Soup.  Nostalgia eat your heart out, right?  It throwbacks to the early noughties, but at the same time sounds fresh and new.  Chuck’s drumming in this track is on point.  

Perfectly Perfect.  Apart from the corny title, I have no complaints about this track.  This song is very relatable especially as I’m married to a man who basically says this about me…that I’m beautiful, sexy etc and I really don’t see that… Maybe this song will change that.  

Horns and Simple Plan? I never thought that possible, but I Don’t Wanna Be Sad (which was first released when I was on my honeymoon last September) brought a completely different feel to a Simple Plan song.  The band is well known for their heavy (theme wise) songs being catchy and poppy and fun.  This offering was no different, except that it is very different.  I loved it from the first listen, especially as I’d been feeling a bit down at the time.  

P.S. I Hate You.  I don’t think I’ve ever hated anyone…so my thoughts on this song are purely about the music itself.  This song is another quintessential Simple Plan track, in its barest form.  Enough said.

I don’t cry when listening to Simple Plan songs.  Not ever.  Not until now.  Problem Child broke something inside of me.  I don’t even know what it is really.  Is it the heartfelt lyrics? Is it the actual chords and melody of the chorus? Is it the piano in the instrumental and Jeff’s solo? Or is it the fact that even though I love my parents and they brought me up well, and I’ve reached a place where I know they’re proud of my achievements, there are moments where I felt I disappointed them and could’ve done a lot better? Whatever it is, the song has made me emotional every listen.  Every single time.  (Oh, and the key change in this song was well done.)

The final track on the album, I Dream About You, is nothing like any other song the band has ever written.  From the opening notes, and Pierre’s vocals to Juliet Simms sultry tones, to the strings this song has a dreamlike quality that may not appeal to everyone but has captured my heart.  This song is pure art, no mistake and I love that the band were brave enough to put this on the album, as the final song no less.  It really rounds out the album and leaves a lasting impression long after the final note has ended.  

Bear in mind that these are just my opinions, you may disagree with me and that’s fine, but to sum up what I’ve said here, this album is full of diverse songs that bring a fresh new sound to the music landscape.  However, at the same time remind us of where Simple Plan have come from, the pop punk arena of the late 90s/early noughties, and they haven’t forgotten that either.  

I’d hazard to say this so early on, but I believe this is the best album Simple Plan has released and that’s saying something since I’ve always placed SNGA on that pedestal.  

So, TL;DR
I give this album 9/10 – for diversity and reminding us of their roots
Best tracks: I Dream About You, Opinion Overload, Problem Child, Boom!, Singing in the Rain
Weakest track: Everything Sucks

Posted in Blogging, my thoughts

New 30 Day Blog Challenge – Day 1

Discuss your current relationship 
I’ve been married almost six months and sometimes it’s difficult to remember that I haven’t even been with my amazing husband for two years, yet.  That’s a scary thought, considering my previous relationship lasted only two and bit years.  At the same time my marriage is very very different to my previous relationship.  
Mark and I have a very open and honest dialogue with each other; as much is possible for me.  I’m a reserved person and find it difficult to open up to anyone, especially if I’m stressing over things that I have no control over.  My husband though is very good at drawing me out and getting me to speak out my thoughts. That’s something I treasure.  
We can go from having silly insignificant conversations to deep and serious discussions; example: We were talking random stuff tonight and then started talking about same-sex marriage and other relational subjects.  
We are compatible in so many ways and I am forever grateful to God for that.  
Posted in Blogging, blogging the important stuff, childcare, Christmas, December thoughts, early learning thoughts, home is where the heart is, work

It’s December|First Year Done|Home is Where the Heart Is

Some could say that the first year at a new job is always going to be stressful.  Now add on the fact that my centre was brand new at the beginning of this year.  It officially opened in January and had a dedication service in February.

And, now, we’re at the end of the first year, tracking on well to reaching capacity and running smoothly with all the staff that we need.

I don’t see my colleagues as just ‘other staff’ though.  They’re like family.  Distant family, yes…but family nonetheless.  It’s like what Tim Healy said at our Christmas service on the weekend: We can have more than one home, because home is where the heart is.  And my heart and soul and mind are set firmly at my centre.

Do you feel that way at your centre?

The families that call our centre theirs, the team, the support from the Church team…it’s been an amazing year.  Yes, I’ve been sick countless times and had to have time off…but that’s the hazard of working in my profession.  Children are germ magnets…and maybe I am too.

There have been some amazing moments too.  The little things.  Children learning my name, or reaching for me, or just wanting me to join in their play.  Children learning, developing, growing.  The first steps…the first words… the smiles, the tears, the giggling.  The spilled milk…the crying over spilled milk…all of it.

But I think for me, the defining moment was when my Director said to me, after I’d gone away for a holiday and come back, “You’re not going anywhere, we’re keeping you.”

To feel like a valued member of the team, of the family? That means more than anything.  Especially after the way I felt at my previous centre.

Home.  Home is definitely where the heart is.

So, this Christmas season, I can only give thanks to God.  Thanks that 2015 turned out the way it did.

And here’s to a just as amazing 2016.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all.

Posted in my thoughts, personal, sex

On Sex and waiting after marriage

Sexual compatibility isn’t about the act of having sex


It’s so much more than that. It’s a heart connection. That’s why having sex outside of marriage (or committed long term relationship) can be so damaging. 

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Asking how can one know if they’re compatible if they don’t try before marriage is a pointless question.

Because you can know before you ever engage in sexual intercourse.

I waited. But we both knew we were compatible because we didn’t abstain from touching each other and talking about what we liked.

You see the way I see it is this: if you know your own body you can actually make yourself compatible with your partner. You just need to communicate your needs, and they theirs. You have to be on the same page, emotionally and mentally. The physical side of things will follow.

I don’t pretend to be an expert about these things, but I think I’ve managed to prove a couple of people wrong on that front.

Waiting until after marriage has actually made it all the better.

One more thing. In the end, it comes down to the act of love.

God, who is Love incarnate, created the act of sex to be enjoyed between a married couple. It is the ultimate show of love and trust in a relationship.

For me, waiting until after marriage was the best decision I ever made.

No regrets.

Posted in Best of 2015, December thoughts, my thoughts, reflection

Best of… 2015

2015 has been an amazing year, so in light of that have the run down of my best thoughts of the year.
I may elaborate on some of these in subsequent posts 🙂

Book of the year:  Mrs Queen Takes the TrainWilliam Kuhn/The Hypnotist’s Love Story – Liane Moriarty
Album of the year (Band):  Diamonds – Hawk Nelson
Album of the Year (Singer/Songwriter): Crazy Days – Paul Morrison
Song of the year:  Boom – Simple Plan/ Will You Be Mine – Paul Morrison/Sold Out – Hawk Nelson
Worship Album of the year: Wildest Dreams – Riverview Worship
Worship song of the year: Wildest Dreams – Riverview Worship/ Great Are You, Lord – All Sons & Daughters/ Ever Be – Bethel Music/ Good Good Father – Housefires
Christmas Album of the Year: Adore – Chris Tomlin 
Concert of the year: Third Day/Paul Simon and Sting
Gig of the year: Crazy Days Album Launch
Movie of the year: The Martian/Mockingjay Part 2
Movie Character of the year:  Katniss Everdeen/Mark Watney
TV Show of the year:  Heroes [Yes, I know it’s not actually new this year; it’s an old old show…but, I’m watching it on Netflix]
TV Character of the year: Hiro Nakamura/Peter Petrelli [see above comment]
Sporting Moment: NRL – North Queensland Cowboys winning their first Grand Final/ AFL – Carlton v Collingwood game at the G/ NBL Wildcats v Crocs game at the Arena
Personal moments: Going to Melbourne with Mark, started new job, getting married
Milestones: Turned 30
Memorable hashtags: #mwsquared #spbed #spalbum5 #worldadoptionday #crazydays #teamsp #takingonefortheteam #lovemakesaway 
Best announcement: Simple Plan’s fifth album – Taking One For The Team, release date 19th February 2016. 

Posted in Music, my thoughts

Top 25 songs of 2015

I’ve compiled my top 25 songs of 2015. 
These are not only songs that were released this year; the list includes tracks that have been a big part of my emotional landscape this year. 

1. Boom – Simple Plan
2. One Life – Hedley
3. Sold Out – Hawk Nelson
4. Good Good Father – Housefires
5. Great Are You Lord – All Sons & Daughters
6. Ever Be – Bethel Music
7. Wildest Dreams – Riverview Worship
8. I Don’t Wanna Be Sad – Simple Plan
9. Drag Me Down – One Direction [Cover version by Our Last Night]
10. I Don’t Wanna Go to Bed – Simple Plan
11. Diamonds – Hawk Nelson
12. Drops in the Ocean – Hawk Nelson
13. Live Like You’re Loved – Hawk Nelson
14, Made to Live – Hawk Nelson
15. Precious Love – Riverview Worship
16. Saving Grace – Riverview Worship
18. Immortals – Fall Out Boy
18. What Are You Waiting For? – Nickelback
19. A Whole New World – Peabo Bryson & Regina Bell
20. Makeshift Love – Good Charlotte
21. Adore – Chris Tomlin
22. Game On (Feat. Good Charlotte) – Waka Flocka Flame
23. History – One Direction
24. Will You Be Mine – Paul Morrison
25. Crazy Days – Paul Morrison
Bonus:
This is Amazing Grace – Phil Wickham
O Praise the Name (Anastasis) – Hillsong Worship
Rejoice – Riverview Worship

Posted in Blogging, marlysworld, my thoughts, updates

Tis almost the season…

It’s the 4th of November and I thought I’d give you another little update of where Mark and I are at.  

First off, he’s started his new job and is really enjoying it. He’s a greeter at the entrance to Target, perfect job for him.  Backtracking a little, we finally found out what was wrong with him (probably); it was a reaction to the antibiotics they put him on…go figure. 
Anyway, he’s over that and we’re tracking OK in that regard.  
I’m in the babies room at work this week, and seriously that’s the best thing.  Or maybe the worst thing?  Haha, not helping my cluckiness, that’s for sure. 
I have sciatica.  That is I have pain in my left leg which is being caused by a disc in my spine pressing on the sciatic nerve.  It’s a pain, literally; but I’m getting treatment and it’s not effecting my ability to work.  
I have no car anymore because my baby got crashed into last month.  It got written off and I will eventually get a pay out from it.  So, we’ll be able to get a relatively decent secondhand car if we decide to do so.
Another thing at work, my centre has employed a male educator, which I think is fantastic.  There are not many men working in early learning education, as teachers or in centres, so I think it’s wonderful to see.  Especially, young men who are passionate about education in the early years.  
I think it’s sad that the negative stigma of men in the profession is what drives them away.  We need men in the profession because many children need positive male role models in their lives.
In a less serious note, November 1st marked 11 years of me being a Simple Plan fan.  They also released their official first single off their 5th album last month.  
Good Charlotte is apparently back. 
And this Friday night Mark and I are off to watch the basketball at Perth Arena:  Wildcats v Crocs (my Tville boys :)). 
So, that’s me.  
God bless you all. 
(Oh and it’s almost Christmas!)
Posted in Blogging, Church, health, hubby, life, marlysworld, my thoughts, Simple Plan

I’m 30! The rest is all down hill from here!

Not really. 

I apologise for the lack of thoughts from my brain; 
the last few weeks have been a bit insane.  
Before I update you, have the cover of Simple Plan’s soon-to-be released (tomorrow!!!) single, “I Don’t Wanna Go to Bed!” (“Is this their I Don’t Wanna album?” – Mark). 
Anyway, updates:
1.  My husband’s health took a turn, and he ended up in hospital.  We initially thought it was due to ongoing issues with a wound he has on his foot, but over the past week of tests etc (I won’t bore you with them) the doctors now think he has the flu.  
2. In the last two weeks of school holidays it was absolutely crazy at work.  It’s settled down now, but we now have hand foot and mouth going through the centre.  Fun.  Spent ages cleaning every single toy in our room yesterday. 
3.  I turned 30 on Sunday the 11th.  Not the most auspicious of occasions, what with Mark being in hospital, but a strangely beautiful day, nonetheless. 
4.  Riverview is now based at Curtin for the next ten or so months.  The first service, which incidentally was on my birthday, went amazingly well.  God’s presence was there in the large space.  It still felt like home.
5.  Throughout all this time, one thing is abundantly clear:  God is forever with me.
And finally.  Have this photo of the team worshiping pre-service. 
God bless you all.